Love has many faces. Love is still a mystery and every lover has his own story regarding love. What is mature love and what is immaturity?
Immature love –
it is said that the person who falls in love has low self-esteem. He has little confidence and finds a lover who sees all the qualities he misses in himself. The person does not love himself but loves his partner with great fervor. This is called immature love.
Mature love –
If a person has very high self-esteem and excessive self-confidence, then he is considered to be in mature love. This is called mature love because it is expected that such individuals know what they are doing. They know why they love a particular person and what they expect from love.
In my opinion,
both these children of love can fail equally miserably or survive against all odds because while talking of love we have to consider the partner as well. I may be a very self-respecting person and may have fallen in love after much deliberation. It doesn’t matter to my partner who may react differently as time goes on. My success or failure depends not only on me but also on my partner.
Love defies all analysis. Why two persons fall in love and become inseparable is a mystery. Very opposite personalities can love each other for life and very similar partners can fall out of love in a short time. It is the very nature of love that makes it the subject of so much scrutiny.